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Stuff to Talk About
Madonna’s on Grindr!
The gay community has been hung up on Madonna for decades — and the feeling has always been mutual, with the Queen of Pop consistently using...
Heated Rivalry Star François Arnaud on Publicly Coming Out As Bisexual
François Arnaud has peeled back the curtain on his coming-out journey.
On 14 January, SiriusXM shared a clip from the Heated Rivalry star’s upcoming interview with Andy Cohen, in which...
Stuff We Like: March 2026
STUFF WE LIKE: March 2026
Spring is so close -- tantalizingly close. With a month that comes in like a lion and goes out...
What We're Thinking
Why Heated Rivalry?
Heated Rivalry has ruined me. Or maybe it's saved me? It's hard to tell. No matter where I am, or what...
Is Heated Rivalry Showing Us a Double Standard?
Like nearly anyone with a pulse, I've been watching Heated Rivalry. To say that the series is revelatory would be a massive understatement. The...
Hudson Williams’ Quest for Sexual Ambiguity
Here's what feels like the millionth story about Heated Rivalry. Apologies in advance if you think it's all we can talk about, but well,...
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Something shifted in the air this season, and it wasn't just the humidity. From the runways of Paris to the feeds of TikTok, queer...
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Let's get one thing straight (so to speak): Kit Connor never asked to be the face of bisexual representation in mainstream media. He was...
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What’s Actually Happening in Gay Culture Right Now (2026 Edition)
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